Time for SOLA

Is it time for SOLA? Otherwise known as State of Our Love Affairs. XD It would be ideal to regularly check in with your partner about your shared goals and current needs. 🙂 »

Not having it

Feel like not having any of it today. But I must get up not because I “have” to but because I “get” to do what I do every single day. 🙂 »

Keeping habits

Trying to think of a sustainable way to keep habits for those of us with Rebel tendencies (Gretchen Rubin’s Four Tendencies). 🤔 »

Mini goals

Actually looking forward to workout today because I make sure to set easy, mini goals (just approx. 7 mins) so I don’t get the chance to complain about it. 😆 »

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Something happened

Something happened. You can’t go walking around like you were not hurt. Something happened. Apologies were made but, as usual, time will have its way. »

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Letting go

On the prospect of letting go… it seems easy to act like you’re doing it for yourself. But if you had to be really honest about it, half of you is still hoping for the other person to turn around and come back. #ouchie 😞 »

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😔 The more you expect, the more you get disappointed. What then are standards for? #sad »

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Open source

As time goes by, the masses seem to be too lazy to create their own platforms and rely instead on big companies to spread their message for them. I think open source and freelancing are the answers. The more information and software are spread freely and generously (but privately), the more we will find true quality of life. »

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Social media

Social media–much like anything else on the Internet–may be used for generally three purposes: education, information, or entertainment. Two honest questions: What are YOU using it for and is THAT worth the time your investing into? »

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Generally happy

I’m not saying I’m unhappy. I’m generally happy because I have my child and I’m grateful for the chance to take good care of her. All I’m saying is, I’m frustrated and sad and anxious… and a little bit hurt… and a little but angry. I know life isn’t supposed to be fair. And, in the case of motherhood, I assume it will never be fair. But I just want to take a moment to acknowledge these feelings. »

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